Why You should NOT over buy with your first home purchase

February 28, 2019 in Mortgage Loans

Why You should NOT over buy with your first home purchase

February 28, 2019 in Mortgage Loans

Buying your first home is a huge decision, and yet sometimes I watch couple get into serious financial trouble because they over bought on their first home. It’s so easy to get caught up in getting yoru dream home the very first time, but should you aim for the “dream” straight away?

See, instead of looking at the big picture, often times we make the mistake of getting way emotional when we make that HUGE purchase. I often see couples who are ready to start a family jump right into the 3 bedroom, 2 bath home. At times they are pushing a 55% debt to income ratio just to become house poor. Or other times I see a couple purchasing a home and then the mom decides to be a stay at home parent as soon as the baby is born. Although having a well paying job where she would clearly be able to make the mortgage payment before, it has now become difficult. A smarter thing to do is to by a starter home. This is something that is smaller and that they can grow into, maybe even a townhouse or a condo. What would be even better is if it was a smart investment that with a few cosmetic changes brought a lot of bang for your buck when you sold it. Remember it takes 9 months to make a baby, and at least another 9 months to make their siblings. And just incase you forgot babies usually sleep in their parents room for at least a year, so the bigger house can wait.

Another factor to take into consideration is the age of your children, at what point will they leave the nest. When they do you may be stuck with a big house and sometimes financially it may not make sense to down size. When you retire, will you be able to take care of the maintence of the home? So while I’m not here totally trying to kill your dream, I’m trying to help you be smart about purchasing a home. If it all works for you then it’s all good, but if you see some struggle along the way, then take all factors into consideration.

Our family personally lives in a 1700 sq foot home which has proven perfect for us. Yes, its a 3 bedroom 2 bath, but our kids are 10 years old so the space is good. Our biggest current challenge is the lack of guest space, but we make due with rollaway beds and air mattresses.

When David and I work with our clients we try to look at their whole financial picture not just their home. Will they need to save for college and retierment? When will their house be paid off? What can they truly afford to purchase right now? If you are looking for something more than just a Real Estate agent then book an appointment and we will get you all set up.


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Hi, I'm Monica. I love helping people obtain the dream of home ownership, while living a simple life. I am a Real Estate & Mortgage Broker and a Relocation guru. I also love pretty spaces. Read More


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